Another Year Older, Week Thirty-Five in the New Abnormal
Today I turn 63. In my 20s and 30s I wanted a lot of celebrating. By 40, after I started my present career as a psychotherapist, low key became my preferred option. Don’t get me wrong, I wanted recognition. Sometimes, I say with some embarrassment, I demanded recognition. But smaller became better for me. Today I took myself to the Bronx to walk among the August flowers at the New York Botanical Gardens.
Going in the morning was key. I could walk for a good while without seeing anyone else. The day was hot, but there are so many shaded spots that the sun’s early rays didn’t overheat me. A couple of hours of simple pleasure was a wonderful gift. But it’s not the only gift.
While social media is often scorned for the propensity of many users to err on the side of negativity, that was not my experience today. The outpouring of birthday wishes is a testament to the warmth in the precious hearts of those with whom I’m acquainted. I am filled with gratitude. The abundance of good will on social media platforms has the power to transform. The well wishes took a simple day and layered it with kindness and care. My heart is full. Thank you.
- If you have a chance to enjoy time in nature, seize the opportunity. The beauty and majesty of gardens, woods, sea, desert, and mountains can soothe our souls.
- Take in the positive posts when on social media. It will move you and/or bring a smile.
- Look up Don MacMillan’s comedy. He is very funny. We went to Stafford Elementary School together. He was smart and funny then. He’s only gotten better since those early years in Cherry Hill. https://www.youtube.com/user/donmcmillancomedy