Best Non-Fiction, Week Forty-Six in the No Longer New Abnormal
I was reading through my emails when I received a thoughtful text from a very kind person who sent me a picture of my book on the table of the Best Non-Fiction of 2024. This was at the Barnes & Noble on the Upper Eastside of Manhattan. How considerate it was to send me that picture. And, how thrilled I was seeing my book in the photo. It’s been challenging playing the promotion game, and I am not great at promoting my own interests. Yes, I think the book would be helpful especially at this time. I think it’s important to find the self-care tips during hardships whenever and wherever they show up. And, thinking of what got us through past difficulties allows us to remember that we will get through this, too. Those were a couple of reasons I wrote In the Time of Coronavirus. I was so pleased when good reviews started to come in from those I didn’t know. And, grateful for the couple of reviews from those who do know me, and still liked the book.
It's been easy these past weeks to focus on negative news. And there’s plenty of it. So I will take the joy where I find it. Today it was looking at the text, and appreciating the kindness it took in sending it to me. It made my day. And, though I am not comfortable doing promotions, I am challenging myself by sharing the picture here.
Self-Care Tips:
- Brag a little. Sometimes we need to advocate for ourselves by tooting our own horn. I highly suggest this for shy or self-critical individuals. It has meaning to state an accomplishment.
- Find what is funny. We need laughter now more than ever. I welcome suggestions. I suggest Abbott Elementary, New Yorker cartoons, Wanda Sykes latest Netflix special.
- Practice active listening. Rather than bring up a related topic based on a personal thought or experience, learn from what the other person is saying. Listen for new information.